Blog | Living With Grace

Hi!

I'm starting a blog because I'm sick of fitting everything I want to say in an instagram caption. I just got back from Chicago where I performed at a college and was reflecting on my year so far. At first, I was disappointed because I felt like I haven't had a lot of "wins" this year; no viral songs or syncs or big shows. I've been working really hard on finishing songs and promoting my upcoming EP and haven't seen much back from it. To be honest, it's really discouraging and I've questioned quitting pursuing music as a career a lot.

After thinking a little more deeply, I realized all the ways I've grown this year. I graduated from my yoga training, developed a consistent meditation practice, learned how to say no to people and things that don't align with me and my vision. "Wins" aren't always monetary rewards or career opportunities, sometimes they're just moments of growth and understanding. Moments where you make a different choice than the past version of you would've.

There is so much I don't have figured out and I feel like the world is crumbling around me as I'm trying to piece myself together. I know I want to help make the world a more positive, loving place, one person at a time, whether that be through music, yoga, philanthropy and any other side quest I take. The path isn't clear right now but that's okay. There's something beautiful about taking it day by day, working hard, doing what you love, and trusting that what is meant for you will find you.

In the meantime, the birds still sing and there's coffee in the morning and reality tv and all the people who make the in-between moments so precious. I may not know exactly what I'm doing or where I'm headed, but I know who I am. I know I can wake up and spread love and be kind and show up authentically no matter what is going on in my life. That's more than enough of a win in my book.

Keep shining your light

-BG

Merry Christmas

Dec 25, 2025
1 min read

It’s the holidays so I’ll make this short and sweet. I love Christmas. The lights, the cookies, the hot chocolate, the presents, the nice red dress I’ll be wearing tonight :). I LOVE IT ALL. My favorite part, however, is that it gives us all an opportunity to give and receive, to take a moment to pause, be with the people we love, and sit in the love and gratitude we have for one another. I’m not going to ignore the fact that capitalism has its dirty hands all over Christmas but I genuinely don’t care. Give what you can and be grateful for what you receive, even if it’s just love. Love is pretty fucking great.

In the words of my Uber Driver who took me to LAX “Everyday should be like Christmas” and I wholeheartedly agree, but I guess the novelty also makes it extra special. So Savor the opportunity to experience the Christmas magic while you can, and If you hate Christmas for any reason, don’t worry, it’ll be over soon and you have 12 months till you hear Mariah Carey riffing again.

Sending you so much love

Xoxox,

The Spaces In Between

Dec 15, 2025
2 min read

I’ve been working really hard this year, releasing my EP, doing two yoga certifications, writing for sync, learning to produce, etc. I decided to take this last month of the year to slow down, spend less time on social media, not put pressure on myself, and reconnect with what truly matters to me. Ironically, it’s been the most productive thing I’ve done all year.

We need spaces in between, time to let ideas come and go instead of just acting on our impulses. Time to quiet our minds and connect with ourselves so that we can create a life that reflects who we are. We are here to evolve, to share our gifts with the world, to love and be loved. We are not here to run on a hamster wheel and then brag about how fast we are going.

There is so much information getting shoved down our throats everyday. It’s never been more important to tune in and find inspiration from inside ourselves. We can waste so much time copying and replicating and then wondering why we don’t feel happy, even when we do get the attention or validation or monetary reward.

When you’re competing or needing something externally to feel whole, nothing’s going to be enough. We think satisfaction is a result of being successful; getting the “ideal” body, making millions, being popular, etc. However, I’ve only felt satisfaction when I was living in alignment with my true self; writing and sharing from my soul, telling my stupid jokes with friends who allow me to be my most silly self, being kind to others and seeing them light up, being valued and appreciated just for showing up as myself.

We don’t need time to think as much as we need time to not think at all. Time to exist in spaces that bring us joy and make us feel safe to be ourselves. Especially because so many of us have been made to believe that we aren't allowed to. That we have to blend in or follow certain rules to live a good life. But what’s the definition of a “good life” in that sense? A life where you become rich and successful by abandoning yourself trying to please others? NO THANK YOU.

We don't all have the same amount of time or security to sit still or do things we love or get help calming our minds. But when we can be in the moment, get quiet, and listen to the whisper of our hearts, it'd be a shame not to take the opportunity. The world needs your light.

Xoxoxo,

Something worth crying about

Dec 2, 2025
2 min read

It hit me as I was decorating my mom’s Christmas tree for the 25th time and “River” by Joni Mitchell played on the speaker. It was my last day visiting my family in New Jersey. Tears came streaming down my face. Tears of grief for years I’ll never get back, tears of gratitude for all the beautiful memories we’ve shared, and tears for the realization of how quickly time goes by. It was one of those moments I wish I could stop time and savor a little longer. So much has changed since the first Christmas tree decoration but the love I have for my family is stronger than ever.

I fear I’ve been so focused on reaching my goals and making an impact on the broader world these past few years that I haven’t been as present as I could be with the people I love. I’ve always had big dreams for myself. I want to become successful so that I can give back in a big way, but change doesn’t have to be huge to be meaningful. The simple act of being present and actively listening can lead to so much joy. It's more powerful than ever considering how busy and distracted we all are trying to keep up with this crazy world.

We all want to leave a legacy, to make something that lasts longer than we do. But more than anything, I want to be someone who loves well, who is a good friend, a good daughter, a good partner, who is always there for people when they need help. Someone who is not afraid to be authentically themselves and encourages others to do the same. Someone who knows how lucky it is to have something worth crying about.

Keep shining your light!

-BG