The Spaces In Between

I’ve been working really hard this year, releasing my EP, doing two yoga certifications, writing for sync, learning to produce, etc. I decided to take this last month of the year to slow down, spend less time on social media, not put pressure on myself, and reconnect with what truly matters to me. Ironically, it’s been the most productive thing I’ve done all year.

We need spaces in between, time to let ideas come and go instead of just acting on our impulses. Time to quiet our minds and connect with ourselves so that we can create a life that reflects who we are. We are here to evolve, to share our gifts with the world, to love and be loved. We are not here to run on a hamster wheel and then brag about how fast we are going.

There is so much information getting shoved down our throats everyday. It’s never been more important to tune in and find inspiration from inside ourselves. We can waste so much time copying and replicating and then wondering why we don’t feel happy, even when we do get the attention or validation or monetary reward.

When you’re competing or needing something externally to feel whole, nothing’s going to be enough. We think satisfaction is a result of being successful; getting the “ideal” body, making millions, being popular, etc. However, I’ve only felt satisfaction when I was living in alignment with my true self; writing and sharing from my soul, telling my stupid jokes with friends who allow me to be my most silly self, being kind to others and seeing them light up, being valued and appreciated just for showing up as myself.

We don’t need time to think as much as we need time to not think at all. Time to exist in spaces that bring us joy and make us feel safe to be ourselves. Especially because so many of us have been made to believe that we aren't allowed to. That we have to blend in or follow certain rules to live a good life. But what’s the definition of a “good life” in that sense? A life where you become rich and successful by abandoning yourself trying to please others? NO THANK YOU.

We don't all have the same amount of time or security to sit still or do things we love or get help calming our minds. But when we can be in the moment, get quiet, and listen to the whisper of our hearts, it'd be a shame not to take the opportunity. The world needs your light.

Xoxoxo,

BG